It was ironic that when I first found your site the most recent post up on your blog was your answer to the question “When are We Saved.” At the time I was involved in some good and thought provoking discussions with a friend on our differing views of baptism. He believed that once you come to belief in Christ you are baptized by the Holy Spirit and are saved. Baptism then is the first command you complete as a saved person. The primary verse he pointed to in explaining his rationale is Ephesians 2:8-9 where Paul says you are not saved by ‘works’ but by grace through faith. His conclusion was that baptism should be considered a ‘work’ and therefore, is not essential in receiving salvation. Although I believe if God so chooses He can save someone who is unbaptized, I still believe in scripture it is clear that baptism is meant to be a part of the process of accepting salvation. I have had difficulty explaining to him why I do not see this verse in Ephesians as proof that baptism is not a part of the salvation process. Because of this, I was wondering what relationship, if any, do you think baptism has in regards to this verse? What did Paul really mean when he was talking about works? Any words of wisdom you might have on this topic would be greatly appreciated!
Every attempt to make baptism a “work” has, to my mind, failed. We don’t even do anything during baptism – it is done to us! Think of it this way: if I gave you a gift but you had to open your hand to receive it, is that a work that earns that gift? Of course not. How about if you had to unwrap it? Does that qualify as a work that earns you the gift? Again – of course not. And to respond to God’s love and command by stepping into the water and allowing yourself to be lowered and then raised is no more a work than unwrapping a present is.
And our salvation is still a gift given by grace even though we are to obey Jesus in baptism, for baptism in and of itself – and even our obedience! – is not enough to wash away our sins. That washing – that wonderful promise – is by grace which we access by faith. That faith, by the way, is shown by doing what he told us to do. He told us to be baptized and, therefore, we are baptized. That is not a work in any meaningful sense of the term.
I have gone a long time without needing help, but here I am again. A minister friend has decided to unfriend any FB friends who use “coarse” language in posts. Who would Jesus unfriend? I am afraid that I will be unfriended and afraid that I will not be unfriended. The minister says that we sometimes confuse tolerance with love. Didn’t the bad guys accuse Jesus of being too tolerant? Back in the day, if you walked with Jesus you were around a pretty “coarse” crowd.
I have to unfriend at least one person a week on my Facebook page. Usually it is because that person has decided to use my page as a loudspeaker for their sermonizing or their politics or to attack other friends of mine. It is an act of love to stop that before it hurts others and defeats the purpose of a Facebook page – fun communication with people who are your friends.
I see no issue in unfriending them. I think that if a person were not a public individual and had a minimum of friends it could be handled via email and messages, asking the person to consider their language and change how they post. However, I speak for Jesus all over the US and Canada – and sometimes even further afield. And like it or not there exists a large majority of the population who believe that if it is on your page and if it came from a friend (and, perhaps, even if it didn’t) you are endorsing it.
So I have to take off posts that people think are funny or important. Some of them have harsh, nasty things to say about our president and even though I am no fan of this administration, that is just out of line. Others think this or that song is important but it isn’t what I use my page for so… it goes.
I also use my Facebook page as a place to make people laugh. I use humor extensively on that page and there are always some humor-deficient people out there who are outraged and who then respond by sermonizing and attacking. They are unfriended because they are being unfriendly to me and my friends.
Jesus did indeed hang out with some coarse individuals, but he never placed them in a position where it appeared they were speaking for him and it would be hard to jump from his example to the idea that it is unchristian to unfriend… Now, if your minister friend is just calling anything and everything “coarse” and being judgmental, that is another issue. But we are called to be discerning and to keep ourselves unspotted from the world so there IS some weighing and decision making involved in what we present to the public. I have no problem visiting with addicts, hanging out with the homeless, or speaking to gang members about the Lord but I would not allow them to say just anything from the pulpit I use on Sunday or from the electronic billboard called Facebook. If, after warnings, they are not willing to change their behavior, you need to protect the rest of your friends from their harsh words or vitriol. I use the same reasoning when I tell someone that I would defend my family against an attacker. When someone asks “How can you fight or kill that man when you are called to love him?” my response is “I am not called to love ONLY him. I am also called to love those behind me whom it is my duty to protect.”